Sunday 8:30 PM. William’s Grandma (Tim’s Mom) came to U.S.A from Vietnam without no issues at all while flying. Accompanying her on the long flight is aunt Hue, aunt Quyen, uncle Duy and cousin Dai (who is the doctor in Vietnam, we asked him to fly along in case Grandma has any trouble while flying). The flight arrived 8:30 PM but the group could not get out until 11:00 PM because they were getting Green Card for Grandma.
Monday morning 11:00 AM (Memorial holiday) we took William to visit Grandma but she was sleeping so we let her sleep; we’ll come back another day then.
We waited for 5 minutes for someone to open the lock on the fence. William jumped up and down with Ms. Susan while waiting behind the fence. He looked so happy, which made me happy :).
William loves this inflatable duck so much that every time we say “Shower”, he’d run to the bathroom and hold on to this duck, insists to seat in it and play with the water.
We got this tent for William for a while but didn’t inflate it because we don’t have the pump until now. W loves it so much that he crawls in there several times a day. He dragged it from the living room to the hallway and then to the bedroom, he wanted to put it on the bed but I said no. He showed signs of upset: frowned face. Lately he started to throw tantrums when he can’t get what he wants: sometimes he pats me, other times he glances at me with the eyes filled with some tears; the worse I’ve seen so far is that he cries, kicks, uses both hands to hit me or hit on his face, some times scratches his face.
Mother’s Day, Sunday 10:00 AM. We drove to Buena Park to get some bakery for the family at the famous Porto’s Bakery & Cafe, which was just grand opening last month. It was hard to find the parking but we got lucky, we din’t have to wait long. The line to the store entrance was so long, end of the line was outside the store but it was moving fast. This place is so huge with high ceiling, and it was crowded. There were more lines inside the store. It has 4 main areas: cake, bakery, cafe bar & Cafe. We wanted to buy some bakery so we got in the line there, which has the longest line. The order process was kind of hassle because there were lots of people standing in front of counter which cover most of the displaying bakery so I had a hard time to browse around. We had to tell them what we want and they write down. It was my first time there so I just picked the ones that look yummy :). Then we need to wait for the staff to pack the bakery, once they’re done, they will get in line to get to the cashier. We ordered 5 boxes with the same number of items, 10 items per box so it took her a while to box,
Took us more than 1 hour to finally got our hands on the boxes. Total was $70.00.
Today we have a new caregiver named Diana; she’s young (19 years old) and I think I like her. She’s very clever by asking me if our last caregiver was someone I’m looking for. I gave her my honest answer with hoping that she can keep that in mind while babysitting William. I told her that Sarah is a nice lady but I hope she could be a little bit more involved by playing with William in the park instead of just either standing or sitting there watching him. Williams looked so lonely playing alone.
Taking advantage of the RESPITE benefit from RCOC, we asked the GSG Service company to find a babysitter to help babysit William on Saturday for 4 hours. We’re allowed to have 8 hours a month for RESPITE. According to our service coordinator Kim Than, RCOC accounting department has not determined our share of cost yet so we’re not responsible for that. Also, I want to apply for MediCal thru the Waiver Program so that’s why I need to use RESPITE at least once.
Sarah, a very young lady came to our house. We asked if she’s ok to go to the Mile Square park; and she said ok. So we took William and our bike, she drove her car and followed us.
At the park we let Sarah watched William played in the playground, Tim rode his bike around the park; and I walked around near the playground; partly I wanted to watch how Sarah took care of William. She’s very nice but she just either stand or sit down to watch William playing; I hope that she could be more involved to play with William instead of just standing there watching. I felt that William was so lonely running around while the other children have their parents instruct them to do this or that.
10:30 AM we left the park and returned home. Sarah is starting to play with William, asking what he wants to do. I let them play together while I prepared lunch for William. Once lunch was ready, I gave William his ipad and asked him to come to the dining table as usual. Sarah stayed in the living room and checked her phone. I wish that she could come over and sit with us and talk; or she could offer to help feed William. I waited for 20 minutes but she was still sitting there; no sign at all that she’d want to join us on the dining table.
She’s new; she just started with GSG company since Jan so that’s means only 4 months; which means she doesn’t have much experience. I would not want to waste her time by letting her sitting there doing nothing while I fed William so I told her If she wants she can go. So she left after asking me to sigh her time sheet.
It’s nice to have someone watching William for a few hours so that I can do things that I need to do but I hope I can find someone that I can trust.
It’s a hot day so we decided to go to the beach. I bought a Pizza Hutz pizza on the way home from work so we can eat fast before heading to the beach. It’s really nice to feel the cool wind; William ran around just like it was his first time at the beach.
As our service coordinator Kim Than said, in order for the RCOC to help pay for the day care fees we have to become a vendor to RCOC. So yesterday I got a package from RCOC Accounting department; and so overwhelmed with all the paperwork that we need to fill out and sign. But it’s ok; and I love the fact that they highlighted the items that we need to do.
Updates:
Mon 6/5/2017: Haven’t heard from them for more than 2 weeks since I sent in the application so I asked our Service Corordinator Kim Than for contact info for accounting department. Called Ms. Anhely Camacho but she did not picked up so I left a message asking her about the status of our application.
Tues 6/6/2017: it’s 1:00 PM and still haven’t heard from anyone so I called again. This time Ms. Anhely Camacho picked up. She said our application is on her stack to be sent out this week. I asked if there’s any paperwork that I missed or does she need anything else from me; she said no “Otherwise I’d call/email you to let you know.. Your application is approved.” She said she’d mail out the confirmation letter this week.
Fri 6/9/2017: I still have not received any mails from her! Hopefully we’ll get it soon. This is important to us because the sooner we get it, the sooner we can get reimbursement for our William’s daycare expenses. Even though it’s not a lot, but little helps along the way.
Every morning I woke up around 7 AM, prepare my lunch and put 2 diapers in William’s backpack (fortunately I’ve never messed up to put diapers in my lunch bag :)). 7:30 AM, take the stuffs out to the car so that I don’t have to carry too much when it’s time to take William to school. 8:10 AM, wake William up, change his diapers and clothes, wash his face/hands, put on his socks and shoes; and we head to school. We have to get out of the house by 8:20 AM.
Lunch time, 12:30 PM , I leave work to get home to prepare his snack for the daycare. I can bring his snacks with me in the morning so that I don’t have to stop by our house to get it but our house is on the way so it’s not wasting time at all.
I’d pack 1 bottle of milk and some slices of hot dog for William to drink/eat right after I pick him up from Mitchell school. Usually he finishes the bottle of milk, but the hot dog, some day he eats it, some day he refuses.
And in his lunch bag I’d pack some snacks like chips/chocolate/candies, etc and a bottle of orange juice; this is for him to take to the daycare so that later in the afternoon he has something to drink/eat but most of the time he doesn’t: when Tim picks him up around 5:30 PM, the snacks and orange juice is still full in the lunch box.
The teachers at the day care said they gave him his lunch box but he refused and pushed it away. I hope that they try to give him the lunchbox everyday not just once and then stopped.