Welcome Back Ms. Han

Monday afternoon 5:30 PM.

Mrs. Han from ABEST is now back to teach William starting this week for 3 days a week (Mon, Tues, Thurs).  I think he remembers her because he acted so happy to see her.

Ms. Han and Annie were the first ones to teach William since we started with ABEST.  Ms. Han came to Children world’s preschool for almost everyday in the first 2 months when we got the fund from HealthNet insurance.  There she helped him eat using utensils and read books to him.  Other kids liked her too that they hang around when she read books to William.

I just wish that with the funding source from Medi-Cal, we can have ABA services at the day care.

Currently with the funding source is RCOC, they don’t fund ABA services taken place in the day care, in home service only.  So this is why William can only receive ABA services at home AFTER day care hours, 5:30 PM – 8:15 PM everyday.

At the day care after his nap, William always finds a corner to sit in and not playing with other kids; this is the reason why I’m so desperately hoping we’d get funding for ABA services at the day care so that there will be someone there to “drag” him out of his favorite corner and to learn how to interact with peers or at least enjoy the playground or play with toys instead of sitting alone and watching other kids having fun.

Welcome back Ms. Han; We’re happy to see you, a very nice young and patient lady with a soft voice.

ABA Services Is Stopped!

Wednesday 2:30 PM.

Mrs. Nhu from ABEST called to cancel today’s session with William and also the rest of the week.  She said they need to have the staff meeting first then she would update me soon.  I had no idea what was going on but I did not ask more because I wanted her to have time to deal with it first (whatever it is) before I ask more questions.  I simply responded “OK, hope everything goes well!”.

I guessed maybe it’s the billing/payment issue?

Friday 4:00PM.

I texted Mrs. Nhu asking when we could resume session.  She said “I will reach out to you when you come back from vacation on Tuesday to set up a clinic meeting”.  I had no idea what is a clinic meeting, but I just simply said “OK” because I knew we will find out soon.

Wednesday 12:56.

I texted Mrs. Nhu that “we’re back, what’s that clinic meeting that you talked about?”

– “Could I schedule a clinic meeting with you for tonight? At 6:00 pm for consultation.  We will be discuss about our transition team and the barriers that we encounter and review client service agreement.” – Mrs. Nhu responded.

Of course I said yes because I want my boy to be back in ABA sessions as soon as possible.

Wednesday  5:30 PM, ABA technician Dan showed up at my house.  I was so surprised; I thought all sessions were canceled until we had a talk with Mrs. Nhu later this evening.

6:00 PM at my house. Mrs. Nhu came.  She was surprised that she saw Dan at my house too.

So after Dan left, Mrs. Nhu & I sat down on the table to talk.  It turned out it was not the payment issue with RCOC like I thought.  It was me who caused the issue!

Last week, the ABA technician Dan sent email to every one in the team that he felt “uncomfortable walking into a client house knowing that he’s recorded”.  And that he requested to cancel all sessions with William last week!  I almost cried!  Is that it? he should know that we have security camera all around the house and in the living room where the ABA sessions taken place.  “He suspected that I took photo of him”.  This I did not deny; I got the new iPhone so I was testing the various portrait modes in the iPhone 8 Plus: I took several pictures of him and William during the session on Tuesday.  I did not know that made him felt uncomfortable and did not want to continue the sessions; but why did he show up today acting like nothing happened? That Mrs. Nhu could not understand either!

Long story short, we had a long and clear conversation about the issue; Mrs. Nhu proposed the solution is to cover the camera in the living room whenever we have sessions with her staffs; and I will never take photos or videos of the sessions.  I cried toward the end of the meeting; mostly because I think it’s just a silly reason that the sessions were cancelled.  A few pictures would cause that big of a issue? (I cried later at night too; I felt so sad thinking that having an autistic child is hard enough, why people would add more to my burden because of some non sense reasons.  I just simply don’t understand why people can be so sensitive about a few pictures.).

Thursday Morning.

Mrs. Nhu sent me email confirming the sessions would be resumed started today with Kevin.  And that Dan would be out of the case; and Mrs. Han will replace him.

Now I’m relieved that William can continue to learn.  I think he has been learning a lot from these sessions; that’s why I so value them and the ABA staffs that teaching him.

William Is Limping!

Tuesday 10 AM, Mrs. Hana from Mitchell called.  She said William had been limping for 40 minutes now; he looked happy so she wasn’t sure if he was doing that just for fun.  She also sent me a video of William limping via classDojo app.  From the video it’s obviously that he was hurting that’s why he’s limping but he looked happy walking around the area.  I messaged back to Mrs. Hana asking her to have the school nurse checked him out.  11 AM, Mrs. Hana called and said the nurse and the physical therapy (who happened to be in school at the time) took a look at his leg but could not find anything abnormal.

So I took off work around 11:30 AM, picked William up early; he was eating lunch when I came.   He was still limping but I didn’t see any pain from his face.  I called the doctor Huy’s office to make appointment; and they set us up at 2:00 PM.  It was still early for our doctor appointment so I took him home.

Waiting for Dr. Huy (Magnolia Medical Center)

2:00 PM. Doctor Huy Nguyen took a look at his leg, watched him limping around, touched his feet but William but could not find anything wrong either.  He said to give his leg some warm water and massage it.

William and ABA Staff Dan are having snack time. William is looking at Dan’s cup.

He felt asleep around 4:00 PM on our bed; after he woke up around 5:30 PM, he stopped limping.  And I didn’t even give him a massage yet!

No one knows what happened; and William doesn’t talk so we’re clueless.  Hopefully it’s nothing major.  Dr. Huy said to observe, if it doesn’t go away then we might have to take X-ray to check out.  Hopefully we don’t have to go thru that.

Later when he had session with ABA Staff Dan at 5:30 PM, he’s totally fine, no more limping.

Clean up After Your Mess, William!

Ipad after clean up

Wednesday, ABA session with Mr. Dan at 5:30 PM.

William saw me walking to the living so he followed me there.  He turned on the light and then pushed all the magazines from the coffee table to the ground!  So Mr. Dan set a mission to make William put up everything back on the table before he can play.

His method is to get William’s attention on a toy, then ask William to clean up before he can play the toy.

First Dan tried to blow the bubbles and made some noise with domino.  William didn’t seem to be interested in that: he kept playing and sitting on the magazines without looking up.   Then Dan tried different toys but William did not care either. Finally Dan asked me for William’s ipad: the most powerful enforcer!

So Dan turned on YouTube, played some videos on the iPad; and soon William came to him.  So iPad won!

– “Hi William, do you want iPad?  – Dan kept the iPad and would not let William touched it.”

– “iPad”

– “You will have iPad but fist let’s clean up the magazine first and then we get to play with iPad.”

So they both went to the coffee table.

– “Dan’s turn to clean up” –  Dan put some magazines on the table while he said that.  “William’s turn to clean up” – he gave some to William and asked him to put on the table.  William did a few times and then refused to do it.

– “Sorry William, you have to clean up first.”  So Dan went back to the dining table, turn on the iPad; and push up the speaker volumn.

William hang around the coffee table a bit and then ran back to the iPad.  Mr. Dan repeated the same thing.  “Let’s clean up first, then iPad!”

This time William helped to put all the magazines back on the  coffee table but as soon as he done, he pushed everything back on the ground!

– “Sorry William, that’s not right, clean up first before we can play.”  – So Dan took the iPad with him to the dining room.

William ran to the iPad. Mr. Dan said the same thing!

4th time, finally William was compliant; with Mr. Dan’s help to put all the magazines on the table and did not push them down again.

I was so impressed with the way Dan handled the situation with a very calm voice and patience.

Hopefully this way William will understands that if he messes things up, he needs to clean up.

 

 

 

 

New ABA Staff

William with teacher Dan, playing “Breaking the Ice” game

In order to prepare for transition to ABA services funded by Cal-Optima (currently our ABA service is funded by RCOC until end of Oct 2017),  ABEST’s director has made some changes with the staffs that teach William.  Ms. Annie has been the primary teacher for William, and some times Ms. Jody; and Mrs. Jody is also to supervise and parent training.   Cal-Optima has different requirements for ABA staffs that’s why Ms. Annie and Jody can’t be on the case anymore.

So William’s new teacher would be Mr. Dan, a very young nice man; and the supervisor would be Mr. Kevin which we have not met yet.

First day Mr. Dan is 1 on 1 with William, Mrs. Nhu came to make sure everything is fine. I love how she cares for her staffs and clients.
First day Mr. Dan came with lots of toys, he put them on the floor to see which one William likes.
Playing domino

 

Another Session with Ms. Annie

William and Ms. Annie

Tues afternoon.  This week ABEST sent Ms. Annie to come for William for the whole week; reason being RCOC changed their requirement for ABA Service staffs so Ms. Han and Mr. Quang are no longer eligible to teach William.

Ms. Nhi (in dress) is supervising. She’s due on Sept for a baby boy.

 

William & Ms. Annie. William likes to sit on the floor so Ms. Annie uses it as an enforcer.

RCOC Gave us extension

Now that we have Medi-Cal, our RCOC Service Coordinator  Kim Than told me that we need to get Medi-Cal pays for ABA services.  Also, She wants us to send her a letter from Tim’s HR saying that we will remove William out of Tim’s policy with Anthem Blue Cross.  So we did.

Usually she has meeting with Behavioral Specialist on Fridays; so today she emailed me saying that they approved the contract extension between RCOC and ABEST so that William can continue to receiving ABA services while waiting for Medi-cal to approve.  And the new contract ends 10/31/2017, which means we have 2 months to get approval from Medi-Cal.

Now I can rest my mind without worrying about making sure William still can continue receiving ABA services until the next 2 months.

Medi-Cal Approved

Got the approval letter from Medi-Cal.  One day later got the BIC card.  Tried to contact our Medi-cal case manager Juliana Mendosa several times on Friday and Monday but all I got is the voice mail.

Updates:

Tues 7/25: Juliana returned my call; I told her about our current situation with William’s ABA services; and asked her if there’s a way to expedite the transfer of Medi-cal to CalOptima.  She said yes and scheduled to meet with the personnel from reimbursement department tomorrow at 9 AM.

Wed 7/26 @9 AM: Juliana called and set up a 3 way meeting so that the personnel from reimbursement department can ask me questions.  She only asked me 1 question “Have William been using ABA services?”

– With Medi-cal?  I was not sure so I asked.

– Yes – She responded.

– No, our ABA services agency said that our case must be transferred to Cal-Optima first before then can doing anything.

– OK, I’ll expedite the case, you can check with Cal-Optima tomorrow to see if you’re in Cal-Optima network; It should be in their system tomorrow.

That’s it.

Thursday 7/27/2017: I called Cal-Optima (714 246 8500) to check if our case is in Cal-Optima system yet or not.  After asking about our Medi-Cal number, name, DOB, they transferred me to another department because they said my son is disabled and that department would be able to assist us.  I left a voice message with my name, phone number and Medical-Number.

2 hours later I got a phone call (Vietnamese speaker) , asking what I need help with.  I told her that I’d like to select group United Care and add my son’s doctor in the plan.  I also asked her what does it take to get approval for ABA services.  She gave me the Behavorial Health department number to contact.

So I called the number (855 877 3885) asking about how to to obtain approval for ABA services; I told the lady that we already have the ABA Services agency so she tried to look up ABEST name but could not find it; I gave her Nhu’s last name and first name, she could not find it either.  She asked if I know any of the therapist name so I told her Nhi’s name; but she wanted to know Nhi’s last name which I don’t know.  She told me to call back when I have enough information.  (She refused to look up by MIS number).

So I called Nhu from ABEST, asked her for Nhi’s last name.  And then called the number again.

A different person answered the phone; and she said that they don’t work directly with parents; ABA agency must contact them!

I’ve been making quite a few phone calls for the last few days; I’m so frustrated!  ABEST told me to call Cal-Optima and Cal-Optima told me that they don’t work with parents; I really have no idea what to do!  Frustration!

So I called Nhu, told her exactly what Cal-Optima told me, gave her the phone number that I called earlier so that she could call them.  She said “That’s weird”, that with all the self-referring clients that she has, the parents always have to talk to the Insurance providers first to get a case manager assigned before she can talk to them.

Half hour later Nhu called back; she said she was assigned a case manager and given the case manager’s email to contact.  Hopefully the case manager will contact her soon.

What a relief! finally it’s going somewhere.  But I’m truly tired; mentally and physically tired!

Monday July 31, 2017: Mrs. Nhu came to our house for consultation; she said she still has not heard anything from the case manager.