Stop & Wait Practice

Friday, ABA session as usual from 5:30 PM – 7:45 PM.  The supervisor Huy suggested we took a walk to practice safety rules: Stop, Wait and Come Here commands.  William must learn to listen to commands and do not run without asking permission.

So when we’re walking, I’d tell him “Stop and Wait here with daddy” then let him standing there with Tim, I’d walk further up then turn around and ask him to come to me, “William, come here!”.  He’s supposed to walk to me and hold my hand; but every time he’d just run past me!  So Thomas would have to stand behind me to block him from running.

William did that every time on today’s walk so Huy suggested that we train William on walking nicely first.

Ms. Jeanne’s Last Day

William and Ms. Jeanne at our house. This is her last session at our house.

Friday 8/24/2018.  Today is Ms. Jeanne’s last ABA session with William, the Behavorial Technician, who has been with William at the day care for almost every day for the last 3 months.  She recently got her BCBA credentials; and she found a new company that meet her needs.  I’m so sad to see her go because I’ve seen her teaching William; she’s really good at teaching William to pretend plays like ordering food at Mc Donalds, in the airplane listening to the flight attendants instructions to put the bags under the seat, buckle up, etc.

May 11 – Aug 24, so Jeane has been William’s BT for a little bit more than 3 months; time does fly.  I still remember the day when I heard about William’s accident with the Merry-go-round while under Jeanne’s watch, I was so sad and wanted to ask for a different BT; but I didn’t because I recalled the first day she came to our house; she would pay attentions to little details as to what William likes to do; and she put on the music softly in the background.   She impressed me with her creative ways to get Williams to do things.  I’m glad that I did not ask for a new BT.

Last week she asked if I saw William dance yet; I was like “Uh no, never!”,  then she played the youTube video “Cha cha dance” and told William to dance.  It was so fun to see William kicking his legs and swing his hands up & down.  I’m so happy to see my boy having fun in the ABA session.

From her observations, she believes that William will understand better if she writes down the words on the papers and read it with him.  For example, “Welcome to Mac. Donald, what would you want ?”

She only came once a week to our house, on Thursday from 5:30-7:45, so we did not get to see her much; but she was with William everyday from 3:00 – 5:15 PM.  When it was summer, she’d be there with him in the mornings also.  So I bet William grows to be closed to her and loves her as much as we do.  We’re sad to see her go but at the same time we’re glad that she’s moving up in her career.

Good luck in your new role, Ms. Jeanne.  We’ll miss you!

Thomas – The New BT At TASKids

William and Thomas

Aaron had been cancelled too many session so TasKids decided to remove him from our case and sent Thomas: a very young, nice guy.  He paid attention to what William does, asked me what William likes, brought 2 bags of toys to every session (unlike Aaron, who came with only a notebook!).  I’m happy to have Thomas covers the sessions; I concurred with what Taylynn, the scheduler from TasKids, “He’s very good!”.

 

Cut Back on ABA Hours!

Monday afternoon,  normally it’s the PC session with Jody and One to One session with Aaron but Aaron cancelled so Jeannie covered for him.  The supervisor Huy also came to go over the progress report that he had to prepare to turn over to his director; the report is due to the Cal Optima on Sept.

He went over the goals that set by previous company ABEST and how William achieved the goals.   There are about 7 goals that he marked “Discontinued” because he thinks William achieved them.  And in conclusion he recommended to reduce the One on One hours from 24 hours / week to 17 hours/week, meaning cutting back 7 hours/week.  He also cuts back the PC hours from 12 to 10 hours/month.

We’re not happy with his decision because William achieved a few goals but there are still lots of goals in the list that we haven’t started yet.  He based on the ABC data collected by the BTs  at home or day care sessions to conclude that William achieved the goals. I was learned from parent training from previous company that in order to master a goal, William has to demonstrate that skill with BTs, and with parents and can generalize that skill out in the community as well.  We rarely take William out to the communities during session so Huy would have no idea how William behaves when in the community.   From our recent travel trips, we were very frustrated because William would never listen, he would run off unexpected and throw tantrum if we did not allow him to do what he wanted.   Huy only comes few times a month, and observes for about 1 hour per session, how much can he learn about William in such a short time; plus, he just took over our case for only about 3 months!  As a Mom, I know William the best, I know William still needs lots of training on controlling his behaviors so cutting back the hours is not gonna help.   3 or 4 hours of cutting back is ok but 7 hours is too much!

William Loves The Book “Rosie Comes to PreSchool”

Tuesday evening, ABA Session with Ms. Jody as usual.

Which book do you want to read? Ms. Jody asked

Rosie! – William responded without thinking.

Last year when I brought the books into the room; he would throw them out the door and close the door.  Now he loves to read the books; and we read book every night on our bed before he goes to sleep.

The book “Rosie Comes to Preschool” is long but he always wants to finish the book.  He know about 80% of the words in the book.

We’re so proud of you William!

Reading book with Ms. Jody from TasKids

William Hit His Face on the Metal Merry-Go-Round

This is how it looks when Tim picked him up from school. From the pic, it doesn’t look as bad but it’s really bad!

Wednesday.  William was sent home today with a big dark bruise on his face below the right cheek with a note that he had an accident!  According to the note he was trying to jump off the Merry Go Round and slipped and hit his face on the metal bar.

Ms. Jeannie from TasKids was there with him at the time of the accident.

Today, it’s 6th day and the bruise still bad.  When I touched it gently and asked him if it hurts but he did not say anything.

The Merry-Go-Round that William loves to play with everyday.
Report from Ms. Chastity
Merry-go-round pic taken from the other side of the playground
1 day later, the bruise is starting to get darker.

 

New BT From TasKids

Jody and Jeanie

Today we met the new BT who’s supposed to be with William at the daycare to replace Alexandra who quits a week ago.  I got home around 6:00 PM and I heard the music, which is very unusual; turns out it was from Jeanie’s phone, William’s new BT.   Jody said William was singing along when she played the Trolls song.

Jeanie seems to be a very nice young lady and really is interested in finding about what’s William doing and likes.

ABA Session At The Library

William picked out a book in Children section

Monday evening, we had ABA session with Arron and PC with Jody.   Last week Jody mentioned that William seems to like the books a lot so she suggested that we should go to the library; so we planned for that to happen today.

Around 6:00 PM we Jody, Arron, William and I went to the New Hope library (in separate cars) which only 7 minutes from our house.   We practiced holding hand while walking on the walk way.  Once in the library we asked William to pick out the book, he picked a random one without looking at it; and then refused to pick any other book.  He did sit down for 3 minutes while Arron reading the book to him.  Then he stood up,  walked around; at some point running and talking very loud.

I opened the library membership and we got to check out 2 books today: A pop-up book Red Car Blue Car and The Best Birthday Party.   I read these book to him late at night and he seemed to like it: he didn’t ask for Baby Jesus or Zoo Animals which have been his favorite books for months.

He does seem to like listening to book reading; I think going to the library is a fantastic idea. I’ll try to take him to the library on the weekends when they have story telling time.

2 books we brought home