{"id":3272,"date":"2019-07-30T08:30:53","date_gmt":"2019-07-30T16:30:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/?p=3272"},"modified":"2019-07-30T15:20:09","modified_gmt":"2019-07-30T23:20:09","slug":"lonely-boy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/2019\/07\/30\/lonely-boy\/","title":{"rendered":"Lonely Boy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Tuesday 8:30 AM<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dropped William off at the daycare today, while I was sign up, he sat right next to the kid entrance door with the lunch bag next to him.  So I came in, put his lunch back away and asked him to go outside to play.  He said his belly hurt and wanted me to rub.  So I told him to wait because I needed to replace his swim suit with the new set I bought from home.  He followed me outside to the wooden shelve where they put the children&#8217;s swimming stuffs.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I rubbed his belly; then he wanted to go to the restroom.  He sat on the toilet for quite a bit.  Then when he was done, I asked him to go outside but he refused.  He sat down on the floor in the corner next to the restroom.  I told him to go outside  several times, finally he did but as soon as he got out of the door, he sat down on the ground!  I told him to go sit on any chair because the ground is dirty.  He refused to stand up; until I told him I&#8217;d rub his belly if he sits on the chair.  That&#8217;s when he followed me to sit on the bench in the playground.  I rubbed his belly a little bit more; but I needed to leave for work so I told him to continue sit there.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As soon as I stood up and turned my back about to leave, he went back inside and sat in that same corner!  I came in to ask him again to go out and sit on the chair.  &#8220;I want mama to go to work!&#8221; &#8211; he said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\n\nI guess he wanted to be left alone.\n\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"4032\" height=\"3024\" src=\"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/41C92C07-C7BB-48BC-9806-D40CB687D74A.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3270\" srcset=\"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/41C92C07-C7BB-48BC-9806-D40CB687D74A.jpeg 4032w, http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/41C92C07-C7BB-48BC-9806-D40CB687D74A-800x600.jpeg 800w, http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/41C92C07-C7BB-48BC-9806-D40CB687D74A-768x576.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 4032px) 100vw, 4032px\" \/><figcaption>Left is the restroom, right is the door to the play yard.  He leaned on the door that leads to Yellow Bird Classroom.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t mind if he sits by himself but the fact that he sat on the floor near the restroom really sadden me.  Plus, he leaned on the door; what if someone opens the door then he&#8217;d get hurt!   After 4 years at the same daycare, I thought he&#8217;d be better at this place but obviously nothing has changed.  He acts the same way as did the first few months when he started going here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I looked around, Ms. Rose Mary and Jennifer and the new teacher were busy outside with other kids; no one really paid attention to him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I left the daycare with broken heart and tears on my eyes.  What kind of a mom I am that I left my only son there feeling lonely and unhappy.  But there&#8217;s really nothing I can do; unless I quit my job and stay home to take care of him.  Finally, I can&#8217;t do that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"3024\" height=\"4032\" src=\"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/5B1CB306-BE5D-4026-833C-D5CFEB2601DD-e1564526654924.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3268\" srcset=\"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/5B1CB306-BE5D-4026-833C-D5CFEB2601DD-e1564526654924.jpeg 3024w, http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/5B1CB306-BE5D-4026-833C-D5CFEB2601DD-e1564526654924-600x800.jpeg 600w, http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/5B1CB306-BE5D-4026-833C-D5CFEB2601DD-e1564526654924-768x1024.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 3024px) 100vw, 3024px\" \/><figcaption>Closer look.  He has been itchy a lot lately.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tuesday 8:30 AM Dropped William off at the daycare today, while I was sign up, he sat right next to the kid entrance door with the lunch bag next to him. So I came in, put his lunch back away and asked him to go outside to play. He said his belly hurt and wanted <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/2019\/07\/30\/lonely-boy\/\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[232,12,9,302,3,261],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3272"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3272"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3272\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3279,"href":"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3272\/revisions\/3279"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3272"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3272"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/william.mtplace.net\/wpMain\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3272"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}